While each town is as enchanting as the next, Polignano a Mare is Puglia’s postcard town- a beautiful village of white and gold buildings spectacularly positioned right on top of some pretty dodgy looking craggy cliffs overlooking the crystal-clear Adriatic Sea… truly living up to its name as it literally couldn’t be any more ‘at sea’.

…brimming with shops hidden between white-washed alleyways, restaurants carved into cliffs, and an iconic, very photogenic, almost always crowded beach called Cala Porto…also known as Lama Monachile for the bridge that you must walk over to reach it.
We are by this stage familiar with the pebbly beaches of the Mediterranean, but this one was something else- more like river rocks and not the most comfortable to sit on.
So instead, we snagged a seat and a wine at Fly Bar, where we could overlook the whole magnificent scene from the comfort of our lounge chair.
The town itself is spectacular, and while the girls prepare for our big night out, I wander under the Porto Vecchio and into a maze of alleys…
…and continuously find myself on panoramic terraces, rewarded with stunning views down to the caves and beaches below.
Reluctantly I return to also dress for the actual reason we chose to visit this little seaside town besides it’s obvious beauty. We have a booking at the Grotto Palazzese- another bucket list ✔️.


Located in the historical centre of Polignano a Mare, the Grotta Palazzese Hotel, situated on the scenic cliff overlooking the sea, rests on the famous Grotta Palazzese, a natural cave that hosts the amazing restaurant considered among the 10 most exclusive outdoor restaurants in the world. It is a magical and enchanted place.

Well out of our budget, we had discussed this months ago before booking, and decided it would be an experience money cannot buy and so, well worth the expense.

On one side this stunning restaurant overlooks the sea, with a view of the coastal landscape and the marine horizon; on the other, towards the larger cave, the cave itself being composed of two caves of different sizes.
Even the bathrooms have a spectacular view.

The terrace can accommodate up to 150 people, in a place that, although outdoors, is sheltered by the vault of the cave. That was the theory anyway…but disappointingly not our reality as it was an exceptionally windy night… with chairs, glasses and serviettes being blown around and even one of our menus being flung into the wild seas below.

We were aware that Grotto Palazzese has many poor reviews about the food and service, but not being harsh food critics, we were expecting great things…and loved the whole experience.

I rise early once again but decided not to walk the town as we had such an amazing view from our own terrace. The town is slow to awaken as it takes quite a while for the sun to rise highly enough to be visible but the colours of the rocks and the buildings built on the huge rocks are stunning during the sunrise.





The first glimpse of the Matera sassi stops you in your tracks…looking down at the dramatic tangle of grey stone houses…walking down a steep staircase, we plunged into a magical world that doesn’t quite feel real. In search of our hotel we wander the narrow lanes that run higgledy-piggledy courses through the caves. 
The streets are such tiny little alleyways, with so many staircases that even Google maps seemed to be confused…which meant trying to find our hotel was a bit of a laugh…at least to start.


Chimneys erupt from the cobblestones and it feels like you are on the set of a movie. Hang on a minute…we actually are…and we are unwitting extras in the next James Bond movie set which is being filmed here. We are made to wait for what seemed like an interminable time in the hot sun, not able to get to our hotel due to filming. A couple walking…I’m not sure how that can be done wrongly but they redo the scene over and over. I think of a time years ago when my youngest son Chrissy was sick with an ear infection and we were standing at the doctors reception having just been told there would be a long wait…he timed his fainting perfectly and we were rushed straight in. I wondered if a pretend faint would stop them filming long enough to allow us to pass and get to our hotel to check in. We are eventually able to continue on our way but these inconveniences continue as the filming has pretty much taken over the town for the next 5 months.
The only two ‘specific’ things I was wanting to see while here were closed to the public- Madonna de Idris, a small church chiselled into the rock which we could see clearly as we wandered and was being used extensively for filming.
The other was a cave restaurant recommendation- Trattoria del Caveoso, as rustic as you can get and carved into the stone- but this had been taken over by crew for the duration of filming.


We negotiate the rock staircase and jump in…we are old hands at cliff jumping now!


The most fabulous thing about it is the lack of attractions. This is a town to simply get lost in for a few hours…to wander the tiny streets of the old town…to sit in the sun and drink a glass of local wine…perhaps peruse one of the little boutiques or dine at one of the impossibly cute side street restaurants.
Or so we hoped as we were starving and it was 3.00pm. But this is a part of the world where the beating heart of community is set firmly in the past. This means long siestas, shops opening early in the morning and late afternoon (but not in between) and a true sense that however much of a rush you may be in, it really makes very little difference to those that live here. There was no restaurant open until 7.30 in the evening- so starving we would stay!

I go out briefly on reconnaissance and to take some photographs…and find the Belvedere Trulli lookout which offers fabulous views over the whole higgledy-piggledy picture.
I know where we need to head in the morning so return to our bnb surrounded by a magnificent sunset- and I am always the girl to get excited when the sky is in pretty colours.
We have a wonderful pasta dinner in a little family run trattoria where Karen has the opportunity to learn how to roll and shape orrecchiette, the local speciality pasta.


The truili zone contains over 1000 truili and almost no other types of building style. It is touristy, with gift shops on every other doorway, but also very pretty.
There was no plan…we just meandered to our hearts content, finding the odd quiet street or ridiculously photogenic nook off the main thoroughfare.



…groves upon groves of ancient olive trees, and marvellous little cozy whitewashed towns carved into hillsides in tones of white and gold…
We punch Roca Vecchia into Google maps…with a full tank of fuel and sunshine creeping above the hills in front of us. We set off on the beginning of our 12 day road-trip from Puglia to Tuscany, ready for adventure.
Legend has it that once upon a time there was a beautiful princess who loved to swim in the clear water of the cave, so, many poets came to Roca to dedicate their poems to her. I dont know about any beautiful princess but this granny definitely thinks that the grotto is worthy of poetry.
Literally a 100- ft wide natural sinkhole/swimming pool at the seas edge surrounded by limestone cliffs from which the daring jump into the cool clear turquoise waters below. While I’m certainly no adrenaline junkie and have a distinct fear of heights, it did look like an opportunity not to be missed. It was one of those things that looks easy but feels precariously high when you are standing on the edge…but the lure of those waters below were just too tempting. We jumped…
We enjoy a sunset drink in a bar on one of the castle towers and then, on recommendation we have dinner in a lovely little family restaurant run by the most wonderful people.

…and the town with few people. I actually love this time of the day when I am alone and away from home.



…and have just enough time to fight the crowds to gain a glimpse of the Trevi Fountain ….



…volcanic odly shaped rock formations leading down into the deep blue-green sea, it felt like we were walking on the moon.



As we were all quite matchy-matchy with our swimwear today, we decided to have a fun little photo shoot in this amazing environment with Karen as our photographer (her new found passion).


It is sunset and we are immediately in awe of the, literally 360° view. Just wow!
So many times already in our few days since leaving home, have we been left speechless. It is also crazily windy…probably the only negative on this island, if you want to look for one.
As a contrast to Santorini, people come to Milos for its countless beaches and swimming spots, which are ready to compensate swimmers for the effort required in reaching them. Each has a unique allure and you can wake up wondering what the day will offer…all different colours and all different combinations of sand, stone and shell. The more remote and harder they are to reach, perhaps the greater the reward.
It is an iconic image of Greek summer and I had sent photos like this to the girls in anticipation of our trip…particularly to trigger Sue, who is not a fan 😂.
I, on the other hand, love octopus and regularly order it when we dine at one of our favourite restaurants at home- Georges. It is the ultimate Aegean treat…an essential taste of summer at the shore…a quintessential Greek food and perfect seaside holiday meal. I was excited to try the sun baked tentacles seared on the chargrill.

…and then to the volcanic Paleochori, which has cliffs of gold, purple, green, rose and white…





…it is picture perfect and I leave the girls drinking a cocktail to wander it’s tiny alleyways and feed my photography addiction.

…before dinner in one of the many lively tavernas. Definitely a favourite little village with the most exquisite details everywhere you look and a fabulous last night on Milos.








…and where hoardes of tourists from the cruise ships that dock everyday crowd the streets so that you are walking shoulder to shoulder with strangers and there is pretty much no escape…




Such a lovely and memorable night full of laughter.






















